A lesson, built for 5 age groups
Finding the Bigger “Us”
A practical way to stop picking sides. Pick the age you're teaching — each version is written from the ground up for how that age actually thinks, not just simplified from another one.
K-2
The Toy We Both Want
Two kids, one toy, and the surprise of finding out they wanted the same thing all along. Grade 3-5The “We Both Want” Game
A simple script for the disagreements that show up over and over — who goes first, what to play, whose turn it is. Grade 6-8Finding the Bigger “Us”
A practical way to stop picking sides, when picking sides feels like most of what middle school is asking you to do. TeenFinding the Bigger “Us”
A practical way to stop picking sides. Age 21+Finding the Bigger “Us”
A practical way to stop picking sides — at the family table, in a meeting, or in a marriage.More on the way
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