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A HANDOUT · WHEN SOMEONE FEELS LIKE THE ENEMY
Two Dials
Love and closeness aren’t the same dial. Mark an X where you are today on
each one. They don’t have to match — that’s the whole point.
Name: ______________
Date: ______________
How close do I stay
to this person?
Distant
Some space
Very close
How much do I choose
love toward them?
Not yet
Working on it
Fully
They don’t have to match. That’s the point.
One way I can love this person without staying close:
One boundary I have (or need) that is actually an act of love, not a punishment:
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