A Visual · The Pull You Feel
Attraction isn’t the villain and it isn’t the boss — it’s something you can actually test.
“Love makes the spiritual man, lust makes the material so-called man, and God made all that was made…”
— Christian Healing, Mary Baker Eddy, p. 17:7
| Out of Tune | Love |
|---|---|
| Needs secrecy to survive | Can stand in daylight |
| Urgency — “now, or I’ll lose it” | Patience — can wait |
| Wants to possess or control | Respects the other person’s freedom |
| Focused on getting something | Wants to give, not just receive |
| The world narrows to this one craving | You’re warmer toward everyone, not just this one person |
| Leaves anxiety, self-doubt | Leaves harmony, more sense of self |
The test is the same no matter who you’re drawn to or what shape the relationship takes.
Wanting someone is different from needing them to complete you.
A pull I’m feeling (or have felt) right now — where does it land on the dial?
One sign from the “Love” side I want to be more true of me: